有些话不必说得太清楚。说了之后，受到最大伤害的就是你和我。
it's better to know it yourself rather than asking someone to spell it out.
那只会让你更加难受。


sometimes, i really wonder what's the purpose of a blog?
to let others know about your personal life?
to let someone know how you feel?
or just to rant?

if one says to let others know about what's happening in my life, then what's personal life? what's personal about it? if you say blog in a way that people can't really understand, what's the purpose of blogging it out then?

if it is to let someone know how you feel, does the person really know you're talking about him/her? if he/she reads and doesn't know you're referring to them, what's the purpose then?

if it's just to rant, don't forget. it's open to the world. whatever you rant about this particular person, your unhappiness or whatsoever, there are people whom you don't know are reading.